Curb the Jealousy

Dear Mona,

My boyfriend and I have been together for over three months now. This is our first true gay relationship. We have spent almost all of our time together. Recently, he made plans for dinner with his ex-girlfriend. He didn't understand why this upset me and why I'd be jealous...

Dear Swimfan,

You have very little to worry about. If the ex-chick did it for him, he'd still be with her... not in your face all the time. There are probably a couple of reasons he agreed to go to dinner with her (notice I didn't call it a date).... (read more)