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By Ramon Johnson, About.com Guide to Gay Life since 2002

Joshua's Coming Out Story

Friday January 26, 2007
I'm 18 years old and I come from what you would call a "religious family." I dreaded the thought of coming out because I wasn't sure what my mom would say. I had nightmares that I would be thrown out if I told her, so I put it off. I even made plans to move in with other people I if things went wrong.

I was so nervous the day I told my mom. I'd just woke up and thought, 'I'm tired of hiding who I am.' So I got up, got dressed, went downstairs and told her. She had somewhat of an idea that I was gay. She asked if I were sure. Of course I said 'yes!'

We went along with life and we get along well. We were close before I told her and we're still close. My advice is never be disappointed with who you are. Be calm, stay calm, and be happy that you are who you are. Just know you're no different than anyone else. You are human. Be happy; enjoy life to the fullest and BE SAFE!

-Joshua

More Coming Out Stories:
Mark's Coming Out Story
Gay Pride Coming Out Story
A 17-year-old Comes Out
Ramone's Coming Out Story

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Comments

February 2, 2007 at 4:18 pm
(1) Ricky says:

I’m very proud of you! You have to be true to yourself Josh! Hang in there! Just wanted to say I enjoyed ur story and your confidence!
Ricky

February 12, 2008 at 11:58 am
(2) Neil says:

Yup I agree with Ricky, well done – must of been harder coming out when your family is religous.
Just wanted to say ur cute an all imao.

October 19, 2009 at 6:24 pm
(3) Justin says:

Wow thats a cool story im still in the closet im 14 and i want to say u got guts
:)

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