A Relationship of Three

Trinogamous and threesome relationships sound like a spicy idea, but is adding a third person the best remedy for a dulling connection?

Hi Mona,

I'm 24 and my bf is 25. We've been together for seven years. I know this guy who we want to bring into our relationship. I'm still not sure if that's a good idea, but we want to do it. This guy is close to the family and we think it is going to be a good idea. At some point our relationship kind of got boring, but we still love each other. We think by taking this guy into our relationship it's going to help us, three, make a better and more positive relationship.

Thanks,
JonyCuba

Dear Bermuda Triangle,

What you are seeking is a trinogamous relationship, which is serous business. They take three times the work, if you get my drift. Mere threesome chasers are in it for a quick thrill; tris are looking for additional long-time companions.

My concern is that you aren't seeking an odd man to compliment an already solid relationship, but defaulting to another person to fix what you and your boyfriend either can't or aren't willing to... read more

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