Are You Enough For Your Bi Boyfriend?

Mona,

I’m dating a bisexual man right now. We are both black. I’m gay and we’re both in our 30’s. So far, we’ve been monogamous and he has sworn this to me. I just don’t know if he could be satisfied with me. Any advice? Should I break it off or continue? I’m pretty confused because I never thought that I would be dating someone who is bisexual!

Dear Crossroad,

There's been a lot of discussion lately about your bi dilemma. Everywhere, boyfriends (and girlfriends) of bi guys wade in oceans of insecurity thinking that just because their bi lover has two times the amount of people to potentially paddle through, that he is twice as likely to cheat. When in fact, his large candidate pool has nothing to do with any innate need to stray... read more

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