My Boyfriend Doesn't Want Sex Anymore

Dear Mona,

I have been with my boyfriend for coming up on four years. About two months ago he told me that he loves me but feels our relationship has lost its spark. He is still loving and affectionate with me and we kiss and cuddle as normal. However, he hardly ever feels like sex although I know he is watching a lot of porn. Obviously, I feel pretty rejected, but I still really love him and wonder how we can go about getting things back to the way they were before.

Discouraged David

DD,

No one just ups and says they're over your touch after four years. So, he's either been falling out of interest for some time now or he's been hooked on porn from the beginning and simply can't suppress it anymore. Your man's choice of porn over your prize may signal an issue much deeper than bedroom sparks, which means that the resolution may not be as simple as lighting a few candles and melting down the chocolate... more

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