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By Ramon Johnson, About.com Guide to Gay Life since 2002

Advice For A Virgin

Tuesday August 19, 2008
Are you a virgin, eagerly waiting for your love light to turn green? This reader asks:

Hi Mona,

I am in my early twenties and a virgin. I have never been with a girl or boy. I have never been on a date, kissed or even been touched by either sex. I have been very lonely and have reached a point where I don't care which sex comes along to take my virginity. All I really want is to be loved and wanted on an emotional level but also on a physical level.


Dear Never Been Touched,

Slow down there, bi racer. Sure you're about ready to explode, but don't just let anybody stew your goodness. I know: You can't stand it any longer. You need affection. True that. We all need some cuddle, tickle or full blown action in our lives, but what you don't want to do is get yourself in a situation that you can't repair. Far too many guys let their loins make decisions for them and too often they are poor decisions all in the name of preventing loneliness... read more step-by-step advice for this virgin.

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