Porn Is Ruining My Relationship

Mona,

I need help. My boyfriend and I have been together over 4 years. The problem is that I have an issue with the internet and porn. He has found where I have been on the internet and I have tried to lie my way out of it. I love this man more than life itself and don’t know where to turn anymore. I go along for a while not getting on sites and then I don’t know if it is lack of self esteem or what that draws me back to it. I don’t want to loose this man and I want to do anything I can to fix this problem. How can I build the trust back?

RN

Dear Trekkie Monster,

Sing with me:
"The internet is really really great... for porn!
I've got a fast connection so I don't have to wait... for porn!
There's always some new site... for porn!
I browse all day and night... for porn!
The internet is for porn... The internet is for porn!"

Sorry, I got caught up in the hilarious soundtrack from the Broadway crackup Avenue Q. But, in all seriousness, there are a few things I'm not understanding here... keep reading

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