Dating Boot Camp Tip #4: The 3rd Law of Attraction

We're all human. Our feelings, attitudes and expressions change constantly. By the minute, hour and event, we alter our state of being based on the happenings of the day. But, our moods aren't just our own. Others share in our present situations. Have you ever noticed how easily a cashier with a bad attitude or a parking lot attendant or your mom, friend or partner with a stank vibe can throw off your entire day? Many of times, I've left my house in the greatest of moods only to run smack dead into the worst of attitudes. After I shake off the "Why she gotta treat me like that?" quandary, many times I end up projecting her negative vibes on others. Next thing you know, I'm frowning at some unsuspecting stranger like she frowned at me.

The vibes we project are viral. Most of us are strangers, but in a sense we are all connected. What affect does the energy you project have on your neighbor? How does your attitude affect the guy you're trying to pick up? What are you saying about yourself as a man looking for love with a frown on his face?

The Dating Boot Camp Tip #4: The 3rd Law of Attraction gets down to the science of dating vibes. Are you projecting the right kind of message and is that message hitting its target?

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