Top or bottom doesn't say much about what we want in the bedroom. The words describe certain obvious activities, but they say little about desire.
Guy-on-guy sex isn't all about who's penetrating whom. We're men, so often that's the easiest way to define it. A top isn't always the most dominant position in bed. For some guys, bottoming is about dominance. Likewise on the flip side.
There are levels of intimacy we desire but few talk about. A guy who likes to top and cuddle or a bottom with little interest in their partner's satisfaction isn't exactly on the most wanted list. It doesn't mean, however, that they don't exist or that they aren't the silent majority.
Few of us are inclined to say what we really want in public, perhaps for fear of turning off a potential partner. But, now's your chance to take the Sex Survey and share your desires.
There are levels of intimacy we desire but few talk about. A guy who likes to top and cuddle or a bottom with little interest in their partner's satisfaction isn't exactly on the most wanted list. It doesn't mean, however, that they don't exist or that they aren't the silent majority.
Few of us are inclined to say what we really want in public, perhaps for fear of turning off a potential partner. But, now's your chance to take the Sex Survey and share your desires.
Ramon, I found out early in my gay exploration (I’m a latecomer) that I absolutely loved being a bottom. I found just the right man to make amazing love to me anally, and it was awesome.
He moved away, and I never found another man to satisfy me in that fashion.
Now, in the last few years I began seeing a wonderful man. We love each other dearly, and our sex life is great. We are both bottoms, however, and anal sex is not something that we do. I feel the ache for an erect penis in my anus, and I think the time may have come when we discuss this. Perhaps we could take turns. I wonder if other bottoms who find bottoms experience this and how they deal with it.
well my partners ok about it but i feel low,never had an errection for 2 months now,can you suggest anything. im 62 male over weight.honestly ive tried over xmas every day to get any errection and honestly my penis doesnt seem intrested.
Hi George. Two bottoms are like 2 left shoes. As a bottom myself, I have found over the years that even if 2 bottoms share a strong physical attraction initially, evenutally the incompatability will become an issue. You should discuss your need with your partner. Chances are, he wants the same thing. If you both are open to it, perhaps you could bring in a top who is willing to service you both! Good luck!