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Ramon's Gay Life Blog October 2008 Archive

By Ramon Johnson, About.com Guide to Gay Life

Porn Is Ruining My Relationship

Wednesday October 29, 2008
Mona, I need help. My boyfriend and I have been together over 4 years. The problem is that I have an issue with the internet and porn. He ... Read More

The G- List: Tori Fixx, The Godfather of Gay Hip-Hop

Monday October 27, 2008
For all of you hip-hop fans out there that are tired of being called a punk or the f-word, check out Tori Fixx. T-Fixx was one of the first ... Read More

Is Florida Being Ignored? Have We Just Given Up on Arizona?

Saturday October 25, 2008
If you haven't been all over the No on Proposition 8 campaign in California, then it may be time to make a donation or lend your support. Even if ... Read More

Do Bisexual Men Have A Preference?

Friday October 24, 2008
Forum member Somanyquestions123 asks: "If a bisexual man tells you that they are bisexual but think they prefer girls, what does that mean? In this case, would a man be their ... Read More

What's Your Gay Dreamworld?

Thursday October 23, 2008
I was listening to Robin Thicke's new album, Something Else, specifically the track "Dreamworld." The lyrics go: "I would tell Van Gogh that he was loved, there's no need to ... Read More

When Your Boyfriend Is In Pain During Sex

Wednesday October 22, 2008
Dear Mona, The first time me and my boyfriend had sex it felt really good for the both of us. My boyfriend is on the receiving end when we have sex. ... Read More

No More Help For The Gay Homeless?

Tuesday October 21, 2008
When markets tumble, programs get cut. A hard, but true reality. However, when care is not taken as to which programs are forced dry, the effects of cutting ... Read More

Review of Tarell Alvin McCraney's Wig Out!

Monday October 20, 2008
Everybody's talking about the new Off-Broadway play Wig Out! by Tarell Alvin McCraney. So much so that the play's limited run has been extended once again. Guest author Bernie ... Read More

A Talk With Author Bill Konigsberg

Friday October 17, 2008
Sportswriter Bill Konigsberg came out on the cover of ESPN.com. Now, with his debut novel, Out of the Pocket, he tackles the tough issue of coming out in a ... Read More

Why You Shouldn't Date Your Neighbor

Thursday October 16, 2008
Dear Mona, My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months. He's also my neighbor. Last week, he says we should stop having sex and he's not stating the reason ... Read More

Gay and Lesbian Politicians You Should Vote For

Monday October 13, 2008
Does your value vote include the letters LGBT? If so, this election season is riding on more than just the two big kats, a smooth VP pick and the ... Read More

And Then There Were Three

Friday October 10, 2008
Great news for gay couples in Connecticut looking to jump the broom. With 4 to 3 Supreme Court decision, Connecticut becomes the third state to legalize same-sex marriage, behind ... Read More

10 Years After Matthew's Death

Thursday October 9, 2008
Pictured above is a memorial bench honoring slain University of Wyoming student Matthew Shepard. Presented by University President Tom Buchanan and Judy Shepard, Executive Director of the Matthew Shepard Foundation ... Read More

Ways You Can Celebrate National Coming Out Day

Wednesday October 8, 2008
How will you celebrate National Coming Out Day this year? The 11th of every October is designated as National Coming Out Day (NCD) in celebration of sexual identity and ... Read More

Help Me With My Depressed Boyfriend

Tuesday October 7, 2008
Dear Mona, I've been in a relationship now with this amazing guy for over 6 months now. Things started off really well. We were always in regular contact, spending time together ... Read More

There's Something About Liz Clark

Friday October 3, 2008
There's something about Liz Clark that has the boys buzzing. The New York City-based singer/songwriter has been on the scene since 2005, when she launched her debut album Hand ... Read More

Your Advice Needed: Rentboy With Morals

Thursday October 2, 2008
As you fellas know, Gay Life has a forum that is open 24/7. It's a safe space where you can talk about whatever's on your mind. There's a ... Read More

When Was Your First Gay Sex?

Wednesday October 1, 2008
Back in 2005 I started a poll about when you guys had your first gay sexual experience. The number of votes has be astounding and I'm curious to know ... Read More
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