The Coming Out Process

We've all heard people make derogatory comments or jokes about gays. Even the most confident of us have a sense of discomfort when outnumbered in a group that practices such antics. Is there hope for a society where gays are accepted and men can explore their sexuality without ridicule, rejection or disappointment? After all, a sexual preference does not define a person or their character, only one aspect of their lives. An aspect that heterosexuals are given the privilege to keep private. The result are men of all ages that are afraid to be themselves or express their true feelings, which can cause anguish and pain throughout their entire lives.

The process of coming out is about accepting ones sexual preference and believing, contrary to some, that you are normal and that you are just as worthy as every other person. Being gay does not make one a sinner or mentally ill. Coming out is a commitment to yourself to embrace your sexuality and face the battle before you, namely the pressures surrounding all gay people. This is by no means an easy task. Some are fortunate to have a supportive family and are left with the truest of friends. Others experience banishment and ridicule, but what they find is a great gift- themselves. But for all men coming out there is an entire community that has shared similar experiences and is ready to embrace a fragile soul and assure you that yes, you are normal!

So, how do you come out?

Read frequently asked questions about coming out!