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Gay and Lesbian Delegates at the Democratic National Convention

Thursday August 28, 2008
As I watched the Democratic National Convention last night, an interesting statistic flashed, perhaps appropriately, under Wolf Blitzer's head. It read: "Gays and Lesbians make up 12 percent of the Democratic delegates at the DNC. 250 in total." 12 percent or 250 delegates at the DNC were gay or lesbian? I knew that our out politicians were spread throughout the country in local, state and federal positions; but I was still surprised at the spread of gay and lesbian delegates at the convention.

Where did they come from, I asked? Perhaps a silly question, but there may be a reason why gays and lesbians have a significant presence at the convention this year. According to the 2008 DNC Rules Inclusion Programs, state Democratic Parties were required to "adopt and implement Inclusion Programs in order for members of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) community and for people with disabilities to achieve their full participation in the delegate selection process."

A result of 12 percent LGBT representation doesn't quite seem like "full" participation to me, but I'll take it. After all, the percentage definitely rises above the widely accepted gay and lesbian population standard of 10 percent and over more recent estimates of 5 percent. The number of delegates is staggering, given that in past years it's felt like we had very little representation at all. The percentage reports low when I think of what it could be and the political hurdles to come. Nonetheless, we are there, in Washington, out and representing.

Thus far, many DNC speakers, including former president Bill Clinton, Ted Kennedy and out DNC Treasurer Andy Tobias, have included remarks about the need for equality for gay Americans.

As November clicks near, here's a recap of where the 2008 presidential candidates stand on LGBT issues:
Barack Obama on Gay Issues
Joe Biden on Gay Issues
John McCain on Gay Issues

And here are a couple of the gay politicians representing their districts, states and LGBT people in Washington:

Jason Bartlett, the highest ranking gay African-American politician.

Barney Frank, founder of the National Stonewall Democrats.

Sam Adams, Portland's first gay mayor.

Daniel J. O' Donnell, Rosie's gay brother.

Lawrence Webb, the first gay African-American official elected in Virginia.

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Lance Bass Joins Dancing With The Stars

Thursday August 28, 2008
Pop star and, uh, astronaut, Lance Bass will dance hand in hand with Lacey Schwimmer (the 2006 U.S. Youth Latin Champ and 2007 World Swing Dance Champ) in this season of Dancing With The Stars.

Since his 50 million record *NSYNC days, Lance has definitely skyrocketed himself in the news—several times. First, there was his attempt at going up into space, but fell head first when it came to paying for the trip. He was certified by both the Russian Space Program and NASA for a mission aboard a Soyuz capsule, you know. Then, in 2006 he came out amid (true) rumors of a relationship with stud Reichen Lehmkuhl. And Bass became the center of more recent gossip when it was leaked that his new man, trainer Sebastian Leal, has a wife. But, regardless of Lance's up and down stunts, he'll have a chance to redeem himself and show us his moves on season seven of Dancing With The Stars. It's been a while since we've seen him move with the boys from *NSYNC. Does he still have it?

The new season of DWTS premieres on September 22nd.

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Wednesday August 27, 2008
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Joe Biden on Gay Issues

Tuesday August 26, 2008
How does Joe Biden, Barack Obama's running mate, measure up when it comes to gay rights and issues? Joseph "Joe" Biden is generally considered pro-gay rights. He has a strong record of supporting equal rights issues and does not believe LGBT people should be discriminated against. But, how does that translate into his stance on same-sex marriage, gays in the military, federal hate crime legislation and other gay hot button issues? See where Joe Biden stands on gay issues.

2008 Presidential Candidates and Gay Rights:
Barack Obama on Gay Issues
John McCain on Gay Issues

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