QuickTips Index
Regain Your Confidence By Trusting In The Silence
How do you regain your confidence after life's unexpected turns? Was your confidence ever lost in the first place?
How To Date Younger Men
Flirting with, then asking a younger guy out on a date is no different than courting someone your own age. Our flirting mojo never dies. All you need to do is modify it a bit to get the attention of a younger man.
How To Meet Someone When You're HIV Positive
HIV positive and looking for a relationship? Find other HIV positive poz-friendly people to date.
HIV Positive Dating
Are you HIV positive in the gay dating scene? Find out when you should reveal your HIV status to someone you're dating.
Have Your Relationships With Men Changed?
Do you find yourself dating the same kind of man? Have your relationships with men changed since you were a kid? Tell us about your dating patterns.
Sex For The First Time
This reader just started dating and have never had sex with a man or woman. This virgin wants to know what he should do and if he should tell a guy he's interested in that it's his first time having sex.
Help With Premature Ejaculation
Everything is great, except for his boyfriend's premature ejaculation. His orgasm is so premature that's it's affecting his self-esteem. Here's what he can do to solve this early problem.
Too Young for Erection Problems or Erectile Dysfunction
Erectile dysfunction can be a medical condition, mental or a combination of both. This 21-year-old has erection problems only when he's with a partner. Could his anxiety be the cause?
Does He Just Want Sex?
When you're in the gay dating scene and begin to develop feelings for someone you've been having sex with, how do you know if he just wants to have sex or if he wants to date?
How To Meet Gay Friends And Build Social Skills
Steve's never had many gay friends and is now trying to be more social. He's tried to start conversations, but they always fade and he starts to feel uneasy. How can Steve meet new gay friends and build his social skills?
Help Me Meet Gay Friends
Having a hard time meeting gay friends? Here are a few tips that can help you meet more gay friends.
Is Being Gay and Catholic a Sin?
If you love God and God loves you, how can being gay be a sin? Here's my answer to this gay man with questions about his Catholic faith.
Coming Out To Your Parents Over Email
T is ready to come out to his parents, but he wants to know if writing them an email is the way to go? Read my take on telling your parents you're gay in a letter.
My Boyfriend's Out Partying While I'm Traveling On Business
He travels a lot for business while his boyfriend stays at home. When he's away, all his boyfriend does is party. When he returns, all his man wants to do is cuddle on the couch. How can he get his boyfriend to have fun with him?
Gay Dating Advice - Should You Start A Long Distance Relationship?
An unexpected connection on a personal trip has left one gay man with questions on how to pursue his new dating interest and possibly a long distance relationship.
Dating Advice For Younger Gays
Is dating any different for younger gay men than it is for older gay men? How about flirting and meeting other guys? The ages may be different, but the dating and flirting techniques are one and the same.
Gay Dating - Find Your Passion, Find Your Guy
The more energy you put into your passion, the greater chance of you have of finding a date.
Gay Dating - Protecting Your Self-Esteem
Your self-esteem doesn't have to suffer just because your dating life is lacking. Here's why you shouldn't tie your self-esteem into your dating life.
Dealing With Relationship Drama
Too much drama in your relationship? Dealing with the drama often means dealing with yourself and your man.
Finding A Boyfriend Takes TIme
Finding a boyfriend takes a lot of patience, but how much times do you need to find a boyfriend?
The 6 Secrets of Gay Anal Sex
Anal sex can be a pleasurable experience for gay men, but there are a few things you should know before having anal sex and a few tips to help ease the pain.
Why We Need Federal Hate Crime Protection For GLBT People
Why should you be concerned about expanding hate crime legislation for gays? See how the Federal Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention Act of 2009 will help protect gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people.
Feminine With A Masculine Type
He identifies as a feminine gay man, but he's only attracted to masculine men. Is it normal for feminine gay men to be attracted to a masculine gay men?
When You're Only Attracted To Guys You Cannot Have
He says he's only attracted to straight boys and other things he cannot have. Is he chasing the thrill or avoiding the reality?
Two Moms, One Gay Son And A Homophobic Family
Coming out to his two lesbian moms wasn't as easy as he thought it might be. Turns out one of his moms has a sorted past with her relatives and doesn't want him to come out on that side of the fence. He says he's never been ashamed of his sexuality, why should he hide it now?