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Dear Zaida,
I just came out and I haven't had a lot of experience with kissing. Could you give me some tips on how to be a really good kisser when I finally get a boyfriend.
The key to kissing is
to keep it simple, sweety. Physical intimacy is best to be kept instinctual as
opposed to outlined and calculated. However, I will offer some basic ideas. A
nice first kiss is to start off small with a couple of soft, short lip kisses
and build up to a longer deeper tongue kiss. This kind of kiss is a subtle
metaphor to the concept that you are building trust and intimacy. Also, I
suggest you start to let your tongue wander to other parts of the body. The
neck, the ear-lobes, and the nipples can all prove to be highly erogenous areas
of the body. Every partner will vary in his preference, but it is up to you to
figure out what turns him on. If kissing him in a particular spot continually
provokes him to back away and giggle, then you've probably hit his funny bone
and missed his erogenous zone. But that should not discourage you from trying
something else. Most importantly, be
natural. Sex is an art, not a sport, although some athleticism may be
required. There is nothing more enticing than a mate who is comfortable with
his sexuality, so just let it flow. -Zaida
Dear Lips,
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