Ramon Johnson

Ramon Johnson is a gay activist and the About.com Guide to Gay Life, a position he's held since 2002. On About.com he covers a range of topics including coming out tips, relationship advice and same-sex marriage.

Ramon was named one of Clik Magazine's Elite 25 in media for his contributions to the LGBT community. He has also been a guest gay lifestyle expert on Proper Television's "TV Made Me Do It," here! Television's "Sex Talk With Robin Byrd," Q Television's "On Q Live," "The Derek and Romaine Show" on Sirius Satellite Radio and New York's Power 105 morning radio show.

Ramon has been quoted in The New York Times and was a featured panelist on the New York Times "TimesTalks" Gay and Lesbian Speaker Series. Ramon volunteers for The Ali Forney Center, which provides services and support for LGBT homeless youth. He is also a member of the National Lesbian and Gay Journalists Association.

I remember the fear, pain and loneliness I felt as a young adult, knowing I was "different," but too afraid to say the word "gay" because of the fear of the unknown. I thought I was the only one. I did find some relief in the gay characters I saw on TV or in the movies, but even they seemed far removed from my reality. Not being out was eating me up inside. I was relieved when I finally did find help from a friend—a real person who gave me real advice. I slowly started to come out and never looked back.

I soon discovered that coming out isn't a one-time event. Once I did come out, I had a million other questions from building a relationship to starting a family to filling out my taxes to buying the perfect gift.

Here at Gay Life on About.com, I am committed to helping you answer your life questions in a safe, supportive and active environment.