Some warning signs of same-sex abuse or domestic violence include being afraid of your partner's anger or emotions, making decisions based on your partner's reacts, feeling threatened or blamed for all of the relationship problems, or any other forceful situation that makes you uncomfortable.
If you've been a victim of domestic violence, here's how to get help:
If you've been a victim of domestic violence, here's how to get help:
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Here's How:
- If you're in immediate danger, seek a safe place and dial 911.
- Call 800.799.SAFE or email AVP@lambda.org. Your call is confidential and they will be able to assist you in this time of crisis.
- Keep an overnight bag or emergency kit nearby just in case you need to leave your relationship. Include an extra set of toiletries, clothes and other essentials.
- Talk with someone you trust, such as an exclusive friend, family member or gay-affirmative therapist.
- Always remember that it's not your fault and you deserve to be treated with respect. It's easy to convince yourself that you are being abused out of love, but that is only a fabrication. True love is based on respect and healthy boundaries; not fear, intimidation or violence.
