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Coming Out Step-by-Step

From Ramon Johnson,
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Know that you are not alone.

It doesn't matter if you live in a small town or a large metropolitan city, nothing can be more isolating than first coming out. You can be surrounded by familiar people and still feel you are the only one that is "different." We've all felt these feelings when first coming out and there are millions more just like you that are currently feeling the same. There are many resources, such as gay community centers and gay online communities, where you can find others dealing with similar issues.

Next step below...
  1. What does it mean to come out?
  2. Create a personal inventory when coming out.
  3. Know that you are not alone.
  4. Deal with stereotypes, discrimination and hate against gays.
  5. Tell family and friends you're gay when you're ready.
  6. Don't give up on marriage or children.
  7. Learn about gay love, relationships and sex.
  8. Don't be afraid to ask for help.

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