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S and M Bondage

By Ramon Johnson, About.com

Definition:
S and m bondage, or sadism and masochism, is the give and take of control (mentally or sexually). S and m is not an activity exclusive to gay men, but for gay man that do enjoy s and m activities, controlling or being controlled creates mental stimulation, sexual pleasure or a combination of both.

Sadistic and masochistic activities can include nipple play, blindfolds, handcuffs, spanking, etc.
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