Dating/ Relationships
Love, sex and relationship advice for gay men.
My Boyfriend's Out Partying While I'm Traveling On Business
He travels a lot for business while his boyfriend stays at home. When he's away, all his boyfriend does is party. When he returns, all his man wants to do is cuddle on the couch. How can he get his boyfriend to have fun with him?
He travels a lot for business while his boyfriend stays at home. When he's away, all his boyfriend does is party. When he returns, all his man wants to do is cuddle on the couch. How can he get his boyfriend to have fun with him?
Gay Dating Advice - Should He Start A Long Distance Relationship?
An unexpected connection on a personal trip has left one gay man with questions on how to pursue his new dating interest and possibly a long distance relationship.
An unexpected connection on a personal trip has left one gay man with questions on how to pursue his new dating interest and possibly a long distance relationship.
How To Start A Long Distance Relationship And Make It Last
Are you considering starting a long distance relationship with someone that's not from your home town? Here are tips on how to start a long distance relationship and make it last.
Are you considering starting a long distance relationship with someone that's not from your home town? Here are tips on how to start a long distance relationship and make it last.
Younger And Older Gays Give Each Other Dating Advice
Younger and older gay men give each other dating and relationship advice.
Younger and older gay men give each other dating and relationship advice.
Dating Advice For Younger Gays
Is dating any different for younger gay men than it is for older gay men? How about flirting and meeting other guys? The ages may be different, but the dating and flirting techniques are one in the same.
Is dating any different for younger gay men than it is for older gay men? How about flirting and meeting other guys? The ages may be different, but the dating and flirting techniques are one in the same.
Gay Dating - Find Your Passion, Find Your Guy
The more energy you put into your passion, the greater chance of you have of finding a date.
The more energy you put into your passion, the greater chance of you have of finding a date.
Gay Dating - Protecting Your Self-Esteem
Your self-esteem doesn't have to suffer just because your dating life is lacking. Here's why you shouldn't tie your self-esteem into your dating life.
Your self-esteem doesn't have to suffer just because your dating life is lacking. Here's why you shouldn't tie your self-esteem into your dating life.
Dealing With Relationship Drama
Too much drama in your relationship? Dealing with the drama often means dealing with yourself and your man.
Too much drama in your relationship? Dealing with the drama often means dealing with yourself and your man.
Finding A Boyfriend Takes TIme
Finding a boyfriend takes a lot of patience, but how much times do you need to find a boyfriend?
Finding a boyfriend takes a lot of patience, but how much times do you need to find a boyfriend?
Feminine With A Masculine Type
He identifies as a feminine gay man, but he's only attracted to masculine men. Is it normal for feminine gay men to be attracted to a masculine gay men?
He identifies as a feminine gay man, but he's only attracted to masculine men. Is it normal for feminine gay men to be attracted to a masculine gay men?
When You're Only Attracted To Guys You Cannot Have
Is he really only attracted to straight boys or is it that he likes the things he cannot have? Here's what to do if you're only attracted to the things you can't have.
Is he really only attracted to straight boys or is it that he likes the things he cannot have? Here's what to do if you're only attracted to the things you can't have.
Relationships Before Sex
He's young, gay and he wants to wait until he's in a long term relationship before he has sex. Is that too much to ask? Will he be alone forever?
He's young, gay and he wants to wait until he's in a long term relationship before he has sex. Is that too much to ask? Will he be alone forever?
When Your Boyfriend Loses His Job
This guy's boyfriend is used to being the bread winner until he lost his high paying job. Now, he's causing tension in the relationship. What should he do now that his boyfriend has lost his job and can no longer be the bread winner?
This guy's boyfriend is used to being the bread winner until he lost his high paying job. Now, he's causing tension in the relationship. What should he do now that his boyfriend has lost his job and can no longer be the bread winner?
Dating For Career Men
For years, you've sacrificed all of your free time for your education and career. And now you're a career man without a man. But, it's not too late. You can find a date as a career man.
For years, you've sacrificed all of your free time for your education and career. And now you're a career man without a man. But, it's not too late. You can find a date as a career man.
My Boyfriend Is Jealous Of My Best Friend
Is your boyfriend jealous of your best friend? He thinks that you're cheating, but you swear to him that you're not. Could the problem of the jealous boyfriend really be you?
Is your boyfriend jealous of your best friend? He thinks that you're cheating, but you swear to him that you're not. Could the problem of the jealous boyfriend really be you?
A Valentine's Day Txt Msg?
How do you express your love on Valentine's Day? By text? Texting has become the easiest form of communication, but some Valentine's Day traditions should be left alone.
How do you express your love on Valentine's Day? By text? Texting has become the easiest form of communication, but some Valentine's Day traditions should be left alone.
Single On Valentine's Day?
Are you single and spending this Valentine's Day alone? Well, don't fret, this is your survival kit for spending Valentine's Day as a single gay man.
Are you single and spending this Valentine's Day alone? Well, don't fret, this is your survival kit for spending Valentine's Day as a single gay man.
Is It Too Soon To Celebrate Valentine's Day?
You've only been going out for a few months or a few weeks and Valentine's Day is approaching fast. You guys are just getting to know each other. Is it too soon to celebrate Valentine's Day?
You've only been going out for a few months or a few weeks and Valentine's Day is approaching fast. You guys are just getting to know each other. Is it too soon to celebrate Valentine's Day?
How To Buy Him The Perfect Valentine's Day Gift
Valentine's Day can bring on an onslaught of romantic stress when you're trying to figure out what to buy your man. How do you buy the perfect gift for your perfect man?
Valentine's Day can bring on an onslaught of romantic stress when you're trying to figure out what to buy your man. How do you buy the perfect gift for your perfect man?
He's Never Been With A Man
Is love possible with a gay virgin? Can he give everlasting love if he hasn't experienced gay sex?
Is love possible with a gay virgin? Can he give everlasting love if he hasn't experienced gay sex?
Bisexual Dating
He's bisexual and wants to date a guy he knows from work. Should he try and get a date by coming out and asking the guy if he's bisexual too or should he keep giving hints?
He's bisexual and wants to date a guy he knows from work. Should he try and get a date by coming out and asking the guy if he's bisexual too or should he keep giving hints?
Reasons He Won't Wear A Condom And What You Can Do About It
Sure there are reasons not too and a guy may use a ton of excuses why he can't or shouldn't practice safer gay sex, but should you believe the hype? These are the 5 top reasons why some guys don't practice safer gay sex.
Sure there are reasons not too and a guy may use a ton of excuses why he can't or shouldn't practice safer gay sex, but should you believe the hype? These are the 5 top reasons why some guys don't practice safer gay sex.
Dating Boot Camp
Take back your dating life with this daily dating boot camp filled with the tips and tools you need to get a date, seal the deal and make the relationship last.
Take back your dating life with this daily dating boot camp filled with the tips and tools you need to get a date, seal the deal and make the relationship last.
Gay Love Advice: My Boyfriend Says Wait For Him While He Dates Someone Else
Him and his boyfriend have been on and off. During that time his boyfriend met someone else and now wants the first boyfriend to wait for him until he sees if things work out with the other guy. Should he wait? Read my gay love advice.
Him and his boyfriend have been on and off. During that time his boyfriend met someone else and now wants the first boyfriend to wait for him until he sees if things work out with the other guy. Should he wait? Read my gay love advice.
Before You And Your Partner Consider An Open Relationship, Cuckolding Or Polyamo
Not all relationships are one-on-one standards. Some couples choose to open their relationships to other partners through open relationships, cuckolding or polyamory. Follow these precautions before you increase the numbers.
Not all relationships are one-on-one standards. Some couples choose to open their relationships to other partners through open relationships, cuckolding or polyamory. Follow these precautions before you increase the numbers.
Cuckolding
Cuckolding, or when a man likes watching his partner have sex with another man, isn't just a straight fetish. Some gay men like to cuck as well. Is cuckolding a fetish or is it rooted in subconscious fear?
Cuckolding, or when a man likes watching his partner have sex with another man, isn't just a straight fetish. Some gay men like to cuck as well. Is cuckolding a fetish or is it rooted in subconscious fear?
Why You Can't Find A Man
Why can't he find a man? All the guys he ever dates want is sex, not a relationship. What's he doing wrong in his search for a man?
Why can't he find a man? All the guys he ever dates want is sex, not a relationship. What's he doing wrong in his search for a man?
When Should You Tell Him You Love Him
Is it too soon to say "I love you"? He loves his boyfriend, but is afraid his relationship will fall apart if he does.
Is it too soon to say "I love you"? He loves his boyfriend, but is afraid his relationship will fall apart if he does.
Why You Should Be Going Out Alone
Going out with your friends and having little luck finding a date? Maybe you should be going out alone.
Going out with your friends and having little luck finding a date? Maybe you should be going out alone.
Help Me With My Depressed Boyfriend
This reader's boyfriend suffers from depression and he doesn't know how to help him. What should he do about his depressed boyfriend?
This reader's boyfriend suffers from depression and he doesn't know how to help him. What should he do about his depressed boyfriend?
Is It Time To Make A Move?
He's flirting, but is it time to make a move?
He's flirting, but is it time to make a move?
Dating Someone In The Closet
He loves his boyfriend, but he doesn't love the fact that he's in the closet. Should he wait for him to come out or should he leave him in the closet?
He loves his boyfriend, but he doesn't love the fact that he's in the closet. Should he wait for him to come out or should he leave him in the closet?
Best Sites For Gay Dating
Tired of one night hook ups and looking for a real date online. These are the best gay dating sites for find a relationship instead of just sex.
Tired of one night hook ups and looking for a real date online. These are the best gay dating sites for find a relationship instead of just sex.
How To Flirt
Flirting is more of an art than a science, and it's definitely been upgraded from the traditional gay cruise. Anonymous nods aren't enough these days. Guys want the effort along with the interest. Here's how to flirt and get a guy's attention.
Flirting is more of an art than a science, and it's definitely been upgraded from the traditional gay cruise. Anonymous nods aren't enough these days. Guys want the effort along with the interest. Here's how to flirt and get a guy's attention.
How To Date Younger Men
Flirting with, then asking a younger guy out on a date is no different than courting someone your own age. Our flirting mojo never dies. All you need to do is modify it a bit to get the attention of a younger man.
Flirting with, then asking a younger guy out on a date is no different than courting someone your own age. Our flirting mojo never dies. All you need to do is modify it a bit to get the attention of a younger man.
The Relationship Sparks Are Gone
After four years, his boyfriend says there are no sparks in the relationship and would rather watch porn than have sex with him.
After four years, his boyfriend says there are no sparks in the relationship and would rather watch porn than have sex with him.
Age Differences in Relationships
He's 18 and the guy he likes is 30. Should the age difference deter him from making a connection?
He's 18 and the guy he likes is 30. Should the age difference deter him from making a connection?
I Want A Relationship So Bad, But I Like Skinny Men
What do you do when you're yearning for a relationship and it's just not happening? The last time you tried, he said you were moving too fast. Besides, you're plus size and the skinny men refuse to look at you.
What do you do when you're yearning for a relationship and it's just not happening? The last time you tried, he said you were moving too fast. Besides, you're plus size and the skinny men refuse to look at you.
We Fell in Love Online
He fell in love online and now he can't stop thinking about his boyfriend, even though they've never met in person.
He fell in love online and now he can't stop thinking about his boyfriend, even though they've never met in person.
Our Distant and Jealous Friends Didn't Expect Us To Last
Their friends started to distance themselves once he and his boyfriend got into a relationship. They thought it wouldn't last, but it did. Should he invite his jealous friends to the wedding or just forget about them?
Their friends started to distance themselves once he and his boyfriend got into a relationship. They thought it wouldn't last, but it did. Should he invite his jealous friends to the wedding or just forget about them?
I Used a Fake Screen Name To Get To Know Him
He broke his trust by getting to know him under a fake screen name. Now he wonders if this guy will ever trust him again.
He broke his trust by getting to know him under a fake screen name. Now he wonders if this guy will ever trust him again.
Gay Men and Frottage or Non-Penetrative Sex
Don't like anal sex? Despite the common myth, not all gay men enjoy anal sex. Many prefer oral or frottage sex. Learn more about frottage between gay men.
Don't like anal sex? Despite the common myth, not all gay men enjoy anal sex. Many prefer oral or frottage sex. Learn more about frottage between gay men.
Gay Men and Intercrural or Non-Penetrative Sex
Don't like anal sex? Despite the common myth, not all gay men enjoy anal sex. Many prefer oral or intercrural sex. Learn more about intercrural between gay men.
Don't like anal sex? Despite the common myth, not all gay men enjoy anal sex. Many prefer oral or intercrural sex. Learn more about intercrural between gay men.
4 Electronics That Can Improve Your Dating and Love Life
Life has never been easier with the profusion of digital devices within our reach. With life lived at the touch of a button, why not put your plug-in devices to use in your dating life? Here are three electronic devices that can help you navigate your way through the maze of dating.
Life has never been easier with the profusion of digital devices within our reach. With life lived at the touch of a button, why not put your plug-in devices to use in your dating life? Here are three electronic devices that can help you navigate your way through the maze of dating.
Finding Someone Special To Date
Finding someone special to date is not always easy. But you can significantly increase your chances of finding some to date with a little extra effort.
Finding someone special to date is not always easy. But you can significantly increase your chances of finding some to date with a little extra effort.
Who's Makes More Money In Your Relationship? Balancing Finances as a Couple
They say disputes over money and politics can melt any good relationship, leading to inevitable break ups due to irreconcilable differences. But I tend to affirm that quickly resolving money issues can firm up any stringy money tensions. o help ease the stress of cheddar (money) equality, I've compiled this list of helpful tips that you and your boyfriend (or husband) can follow to bring you closer to a amiable budget and financial arrangement.
They say disputes over money and politics can melt any good relationship, leading to inevitable break ups due to irreconcilable differences. But I tend to affirm that quickly resolving money issues can firm up any stringy money tensions. o help ease the stress of cheddar (money) equality, I've compiled this list of helpful tips that you and your boyfriend (or husband) can follow to bring you closer to a amiable budget and financial arrangement.
Gay Dating in a Rural Area and Attracted to Straight Boys
This reader wonders how he can find other gay people on his rural college campus and overcome his attraction to straight guys.
This reader wonders how he can find other gay people on his rural college campus and overcome his attraction to straight guys.
Hard Time Finding a Date
Are you having a hard time finding a date, but not into the bar or online scene? Let Mona show you how to find a man by doing what you already do.
Are you having a hard time finding a date, but not into the bar or online scene? Let Mona show you how to find a man by doing what you already do.
Top Gay Love Lessons
Is life throwing you a curve ball when it comes to finding Mr. Quick Fix or your baby's daddy? Or is your current boy toy simply getting on your nerves? Get expert gay love, sex and relationship advice.
Is life throwing you a curve ball when it comes to finding Mr. Quick Fix or your baby's daddy? Or is your current boy toy simply getting on your nerves? Get expert gay love, sex and relationship advice.
Gay Love, Sex and Relationship Advice
Prompted by your love and relationship woes, Mona Lisa kicks in with straight forward and honest responses guaranteed to satisfy any appetite. Need love or sex advice? Ask Mona Lisa!
Prompted by your love and relationship woes, Mona Lisa kicks in with straight forward and honest responses guaranteed to satisfy any appetite. Need love or sex advice? Ask Mona Lisa!