Top Gay Dating and Sex Advice of 2007

Help Mona Lisa:

I am going crazy in my current situation: I am a soon to be a twenty-one year old male who has been in a committed relationship for almost three years. Recently things have, well, dried up. There is no passion or hot steamy encounters anymore. My boyfriend is also twenty. One would think we would be all over each other. Not so!

Dear Desperately Seeking Susan,

You're right: You and your chap are way too young to be losing the luster. You two should just be getting started, not running out of steam. What you don't want to do is start looking outside of the relationship to satisfy your appetite. What you do want to do is ask your beau what's going on downstairs: Is he not into you anymore? Is he bored? Has his libido gone bye-bye?

Be tough about it and don't take no for an answer—keeping in mind that the standard man response to "what's wrong?" is usually "Nothing!" Which, by the way, is always a lie... more of Mona's response