Top Gay Dating and Sex Advice of 2007

By Ramon Johnson, About.com Guide

Dear Mona,

I have fallen hopelessly in love with another man. His wife knows and has been supportive since the initial shock. In fact, she's suspected his orientation for quite a while. She also really likes me because I am a decent guy with a good job and very responsible―a good boyfriend I suppose... The wife has become kind of a confidante and she says her marriage is more like "best friends with benefits." She has actually been quite nice about this, but I think she is a little bit jealous and insecure. I don't want to break up a marriage, but I would sure like to be closer to this guy. Do you think it is possible?

Dear Brokeback Jack,

I can't wait until the days when article and blog comments are replaced by voice tags. Then you could hear the collective "Huh?!" your situation is probably soliciting from the folks reading this right now.

You say the wife seems a bit jealous and insecure? These feelings will only get more intense as you and the hubby's feelings start to squeeze her out. I know it seems strange that she's trying to push you too together, but take her gestures at face value. She's not the confidant you think she is! (read more)