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Top 5 Craziest Things You Can Do To Get a Guy

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Our crushes can be so deep we'll scale walls to get a guy. But how high is too high when it comes to snagging the man you like? These are the craziest things you can do to get a guy.

1. Wear out your ATM card.

You can easily become a sponsor instead of a boyfriend by showering your crush with cash and gifts too early. Any relationship is built on the foundation in which it starts. I'm not saying don't buy dinner on the first date- that's a part of the long lost art of chivalry; just be aware when you're taking it too far. Put on the brakes when you find yourself paying bills, making loans, and overspending just to get his attention. You want him to get used to you, not your worn out checkcard.

2. Become a ready-made boyfriend.

Sometimes we find ourselves with boyfriends that we didn't even know we had. The first and second conversations went well. Suddenly, you start talking about the future and fantasize about meeting his family. You may be digging this guy, but don't let the fantasy of being with him override the reality of the situation- which is, you just met or haven't even met. There is nothing that will chase a man away faster than an instant boyfriend.

3. Act like stir-fry.

I hate tofu! How can you trust anything that takes on the flavor of everything around it? Gay men who change their behavior to match their crush's lifestyle easily become a bad dish. If he's a basketball legend and you can't bounce a ball, don't try out for the team to get his attention. If he's a car nut, but to you a 4 and 6 are just dress sizes, don't pretend you enjoy reading auto magazines. Be yourself! Show interest in his hobbies without making them your own.

4. Fake a pregnancy.

A female friend once told her boyfriend she was pregnant so he wouldn't break up with her. He broke up with her anyway after learning the truth. Gay men can't get pregnant, but some men do manipulate the truth in order to snag a man. The truth eventually surfaces. If he doesn't pay you the time of day, figure out a way to get his attention without the lies. He'll appreciate your efforts a lot more if you approach him with genuine intentions.

5. Spread your wings.

Sex should never have a hidden agenda and body should never be used as a tool to get something that you want. Sex should be consensual, when you are both ready. Even if he's the fastest feather in the hen house, you don't have to spread your wings for him. Some guys are under the false impression that if they sleep with someone they like, that person will like them better. There is no guarantee he'll be all yours if you give him all yours. Get to know him first- before making a move.
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