Definition: Anal sex, often shorted to 'anal,' is the penetration of the anus during intercourse. Many gay and bisexual men share in anal sex, but not all engage in it. Gay sex may lean toward or include anal, frottage, rimming, kissing, oral, or other types of sexual interaction.
Top, Bottom, or Vers: Common terms associated with anal sex are top, bottom, and versatile. The top is the penetrating partner. The bottom is the partner being penetrated. And a versatile partner is one that engages in both anal penetration and being penetrated.
More Comfort During Anal: "I prefer to bottom but I don't have anal sex very often. When I am really turned on and want to have anal sex, it hurts," a reader writes. More comfortable anal sex takes preparation and practice. Relaxation, deep breathing, and even small toys can help ease pain during anal sex.
Top, Bottom, or Vers: Common terms associated with anal sex are top, bottom, and versatile. The top is the penetrating partner. The bottom is the partner being penetrated. And a versatile partner is one that engages in both anal penetration and being penetrated.
More Comfort During Anal: "I prefer to bottom but I don't have anal sex very often. When I am really turned on and want to have anal sex, it hurts," a reader writes. More comfortable anal sex takes preparation and practice. Relaxation, deep breathing, and even small toys can help ease pain during anal sex.
