Your loved one's biggest fear is losing your love and acceptance, which could be the reason why he waited so long to tell you. This is a very emotional time for him. What he needs most is love and understanding. Many gay men suffer from a low self-esteem throughout their adulthood as a result of rejection from their previous support system, such as family, friends and even an anti-gay environment. Even if you don't agree with the same gender loving lifestyle, talk through your issues and remind him that you still love him. Supporting him now can help him lead a more positive and productive lifestyle as he continues to come out.
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