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3 Steps To Discovering Your Sexual Compatibility

By Ramon Johnson, About.com

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Why Limit Your Pleasure Potential?


Top, bottom, or versatile? Such a crass question these days. Besides, it’s much more fun discovering your sexual compatibility rather than making a determination based on three labels. Why let a position preference cool off what could be a blazing bedroom adventure? Here are three steps to discovering your sexual chemistry:

Excavate Your Inner Desires

Pleasure in pairs is best when each partner knows what suits them best solo. Spend time getting to know your own desires. Don't be bashful. Dig deep. What happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. Explore your own body and experiment until you reach your limit, then try to go a step further. What will result is a combination of things you knew you liked, things you never thought you’d like but do now, and things you can do without. Step 2: Go on a Sexual Mission
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