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3 Steps To Discovering Your Sexual Compatibility

By Ramon Johnson, About.com

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Dig For New Sexual Finds (Together)

The next step in your adult game of show and tell is to challenge each other to a new game of hide and seek. Take turns finding ways to pleasure each other that neither of you have previously thought of. Push your sexual limits. Create a "safety" word or phrase that lets your partner know when he's going too far. "Not there," "I don't like that," or "Oh no" work great. At last, take a deep breath, count to three, and enjoy the process of achieving infinite levels of intimacy. Step 1: Excavate Your Inner Desires

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