I've been seeing a guy for a few months now. He is great to be with and very affectionate, but when the morning arrives we both usually go our separate ways. He does keep in contact with me when we are not together, but our lives are very much separate. I do not spend any "quality" time with him. He says he likes me a lot but does not want to rush things. How do I get him to spend more time with me but without appearing so clingy and emotionally attached?
Romantic At Heart
Hey Sex Buddy,
Sounds like you've got yourself a classic case of the non-committal gay man (we'll call him sex buddy for now). I've suffered through many a situation at the hands of this fairly common being.
This entity must be handled with extreme care. They release emotion at their own pace and no other. Pouring your heart out will only be seen as a sign of commitment which is their biggest fear. Hopeless romantics like yourself who think about the future often fall victim to their charm. The sex buddy has no concept of the past or future; they live in the present. What does this mean for you? read more