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A Guide to Gay Sex
Gay sex may seem simple: give, receive, relieve. But, it is far more complicated when you consider the various degrees at which some men are ready to be intimate with other men. Lean into this gay sex guide filled with tips and tools on how to have gay sex.
The Best Dating Sites for Gay Men
There's an online gay dating site and chat room for the gay man interested in long term relationships or causal meet ups. This guide gives the pros and cons of the best dating sites online.
Famous Gays And Out And Proud Celebrities
A top list of gay celebrities past and present.
How Many Gay People Are There in the United...
How many gays are there in the United States? The number of gay, lesbian, and bisexual people in the United States can be estimated, but see why the total number can never fully be counted.
Are You Gay? Here's How To Tell
Are you gay or is it just a fantasy? The answer isn't simple, but it can help you sift through confusion about your sexuality.
Gay Sex: Are You a Top, Bottom, or Versatile?
Are you a gay top, bottom or versatile? Chances are you've been asked one time or another. Find out what these gay sex positions mean.
Pros and Cons of Poppers During Gay Sex
Poppers are used as a muscle relaxer and stimulant during sex. But, do poppers really make gay sex better?
Gay Sex: Is This Your First Time?
This reader just started dating and have never had sex with a man or woman. This virgin wants tips on how to have gay sex for the first time.
Gay Sex: What's the Deal with Frottage?
Don't like anal sex? Despite the common myth, not all gay men enjoy anal sex. Many prefer oral or frottage sex. Learn more about frottage between gay men.
How to Use Grindr
A tutorial on how to use Grindr, the mobile app for gay men.
6 Signs Your Husband Is Not Gay
Before you accuse your husband of being gay, get to the root of your suspicion with these six signs he's not gay.
What Is Intercrural or Non-Penetrative Sex?
Don't like anal sex? Despite the common myth, not all gay men enjoy anal sex. Many prefer oral or intercrural sex. Learn more about intercrural between gay men.
Is Bareback Gay Sex Worth the Risk?
Is bareback sex right for you? For any man gay or straight, it's hard to make the decision in the heat of the moment.
Does Sex With Another Man Make You Gay?
Does having sex with another man make you gay?
Tips for Gay High School and College Students
Are you gay and just came out or plan on coming out in college? Here are tips on how to telling your roommate you're gay, finding new gay friends, campus safety, dating and other things you may encounter as a gay high school or college student.
12 Chart-Topping Male Singers Who Have Come Out...
These chart toppers set aside their musical talents for a moment to take center stage for another reason: to come out of the closet.
How to Ask Out a Guy When You Don't Know If...
Find out how to ask a guy out when you don't know if he is gay or not.
Gay Sex: What to Do When Your Boyfriend Won't...
This gay man is sexually a bottom in the relationship, but his boyfriend refuses to even try bottoming or let him experience new things. Should he break up with him or just be quiet and bottom?
A Gay Man's Guide to Flirting
Flirting is more of an art than a science, and it's definitely been upgraded from the traditional gay cruise. Anonymous nods aren't enough these days. Guys want the effort along with the interest. Here's how to flirt and get a guy's attention.
Why The Total Number Of Gay People In The World...
How many gays are there in the United States? There are several reasons why the number of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people can only be estimated.
What to Do if You Think Your Boyfriend Is Gay
You think your boyfriend is gay, but how do you confront him? Read this and other advice about gay boyfriends.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Out actor Jesse Tyler Ferguson plays Mitchell on ABC's hit comedy Modern Family. Page 10.
Does Wearing This Accessory Mean You're Gay?
Is a ring on the right hand a sign that a man is gay? What are the signs of a gay man?
The Top 7 Sex Toys for Gay Men
Review of the top sex toys for gay men.
Some Advice for Gay Men Looking to Give Great...
Do you think you know everything you need to know about how to deliver an impressive fellatio? Deep throating at its best, while controlling the gag reflex, it’s a technique difficult to master. You’ve probably seen other guys do it without blinking.
11 Things You Can Do To Pick Up More Gay Men
Don't know how to flirt? Start picking up more gay men with these tips.
How To Rim Safely (And Enjoy Yourself)
Gay rimming, or analingus, is popular but there are a few precautions you should take before the fun begins.. Learn how to do it safely.
Advice for Gays: What to Do When Your Man Is on...
Do you suspect your man is on the down low? Read this quick guide for women in relationships with men on the down low.
Why Am I Gay?
If only we could explain the things we feel inside. There are many different reasons why we are the way we are, but can sexual orientation be explained? Is there a reason why we're gay?
Top Gay Holiday Gifts
Gay men deserves a top gay gift this Christmas season, these gay gifts are sure to bring your man holiday happiness.
When I Learned My Son Was Gay
This mom didn't mean to out her gay son, but the hickey on his neck and a new close (and older) friend forced her to broach the topic of his sexuality and ultimately his safety.
A Guide to Coming Out of the Closet
A guide to coming out of the closet and telling your family and friends that you're gay.
What to Do When You Have Trouble Befriending...
Having a hard time meeting gay friends? Here are a few tips that can help you meet more gay friends.
What You Didn't Know About Crystal Meth
Crystal meth or tina is one of the fastest growing drugs used by gay men. Continued use of crystal meth can cause serious health problems and alienate users from those they love.
A Gay Man's Guide to Kissing Someone for the...
So you’ve been chatting up a guy you like and now you want to take matters to the next level and engineer that first kiss. But how do you overcome the natural uncertainty and resistance?
3 Myths About Bisexual Men and Women
There are many myths associated with bi men and bisexuality in general. Read the top myths about bi men.
Six Steps to Lasting Longer in Bed
Everything in your sex life great, except for your premature ejaculation? Here are six steps to lasting longer in bed.
Is it Possible to Turn a Straight Guy Gay?
Is it possible to turn someone that might be straight into a gay man? Many gay men try to use their powers of queer persuasion to create the ideal love fantasy. They become preoccupied with the quest of turning the seemingly impossible into the utterly tragic.
Advice For a Gay and Bisexual Virgins
Advice for a gay and bisexual virgins that are ready to have sex.
8 Best Condom Brands for Gay Men
Gay Life guest writers Nathan Seven Scott and Jared Shuler review the best condom brands for gay men.
PNP (Party and Play)
PNP, or party and play, is a subculture of people who use drugs while having sex.
Do We Need Sexual Labels?
When I was a child I remember not having a lot on my mind regarding what was right or wrong. Eventually you form your own thoughts as you grow up but most of those thoughts are driven mostly not by the way you see the world by the way the world is shown to you. That is why growing up as gay was difficult.
Should You Come Out On Thanksgiving Day?
Mom wants you to come home on Thanksgiving Day, but is turkey time the best time to come out?
Reasons Why He Won't Use A Condom (And What You...
Sure there are reasons not to wear a condom and a guy may use a ton of excuses why he can't or shouldn't practice safer gay sex, but should you believe the hype? These are the top reasons why some guys don't use condoms and what you can do about it.
4 Great Places to Find Gay Men
Is there one good way to find gay men that are interested in romance? There are many good places to finding gay men to date. Read the top five!
How Gay Are You According to the Kinsey Scale...
The Kinsey Scale of human sexuality tells us that a person may not be completely gay or straight based on a 7-continuum scale.
Versatile Top
Are you a versatile top? Find out what it means to be a gay versatile top.
The Truth about Penis Size
Does penis size matter to gay men? You'll get as many different answers as the number of men you ask. Some consider it the most important thing, others not so much. Do you measure up? Are you embaraced/proud of yours? Know the truth about penis size
Same-Sex Attraction in 5 Minutes
Your same-sex attraction isn't something to be cured or corrected. Your feelings are valid and there are many individuals with feelings for the same sex that live happy and affirmative lives.
Arguments for Adoption by Same-Sex Couples
Here are the myth-busting facts about gay and lesbian adoptions. Don't buy into the myths that gay adoption poses an unsafe environment for children.
You Could Be Bottom Shaming (And Not Even Know...
Bottom shaming is the act of treating and-or perceiving the receptive partner of anal sex (the bottom) than the penetrative partner (the top). Could you be bottom shaming someone without knowing it?
Are you a versatile gay man? Find out what it means to be versatile.
How Do I Know If I'm Gay?
There are no scientific tests or stereotypes (such as the types of clothes you wear or how masculine or feminine you are) that can determine your sexuality. But, there are questions you can ask yourself to help you determine if you are gay.
The Bottom Diet
Here is a tricky question for most gay men who enjoy anal sex: how to have a clean bottom to avoid unpleasant surprises? Some gay men chose to clean their bottoms with some sophisticated sex toys, but all that work can be avoided with a simple, yet sophisticated task: a diet.
How to Succeed in the Gay Dating Scene
Succeed in the gay dating scene with these gay dating tips.
Top 10 Questions About Gay Sex
Gay men ask love advice writer Ramon Johnson about their pressing sex questions.
How Many Times Do Gay Couples Have Sex?
How many times do gay couples really have sex? We consulted the sex experts.
Versatile Bottom
Are you a versatile bottom? Find out what it means to be a gay versatile bottom.
Why Equal Gay Rights Are Needed in Times of...
In times of crisis, gay couples are left powerless to make medical decisions or receive aid and benefits should the worst happen. See why equal gay rights are needed in times of tragedy.
10 Great Alternative Date Ideas for Gay Men
Tired of the same old coffee shop, movies and dinner date routine? Try these alternative romantic or first gay date ideas.
Chris Colfer
Actor and singer Chris Colfer plays the soft-spoken and incisive Kurt Hummel on FOX's hit show Glee. Page 14.
Frequently Asked Questions About The Down Low
Get behind the down low, men who discreetly have sex with other men.
Gay Sex Advice: The Dos and Don'ts of Hooking Up
Advice on what to look out for before, during and after hooking up.
Men, Here's How To Have Multiple Orgasms
Men, have you ever wondered if you can have multiple orgasms? Here is a guide to separate the myth from fact concerning male orgasms.
Breeding (Gay)
Gay Breeding is a slang term used to describe the process of ejaculating inside of another man during unprotected anal sex.
Clubfly.com: Gay and Lesbian Bar Finder
Find a gay or lesbian bar or club in a town near you with an online gay club finder. But how does Clubfly.com fare among other leading gay and lesbian bar finders?
How Gay-Frienly Is Your Doctor?
Being gay isn't a medical condition or a problem and your doctor shouldn't treat it as such. Your care should be tailored toward your specific needs and should be taken just as seriously as the care of your doctor's straight patients. Here's how to find a gay-friendly doctor.
Dating Someone In The Closet
He's in love with his roommate and best friend, but he doesn't love the fact that his roommate is in the closet. Should he wait for him to come out or should he leave him in the closet?
Coming Out (While Gay And Married)
Coming out is difficult, particularly when you're in a heterosexual marriage. Learn how to develop new life goals and cope with your new lifestyle and a potentially hurtful situation. Read about coming out while married.
Penis Enlargement: Do Pumps and Other...
There are many temporary and permanent ways to enlarge your penis. Procedures range from surgical techniques to do-it-yourself pumps.
Gay Porn
Is gay porn worth the risk? Gay Life.
The Best Underwear For Gay Men (Briefs)
Get briefed on the best underwear for gay men.
10 Tips To Better Gay Online Dating
With the hundreds of gay dating profiles out there online, how do you make yours stand out from the online crowd? Think like a business and market your online presence to get the date you want.
Sex Without a Condom
Sex without a condom is always risky, sadly even for monogamous couples. So, what do you do when the one you love asks not to use protection the first time you are intimate?
Should You Worry About Kissing and HIV?
Can you get HIV from kissing? You can catch HIV in many ways, but kissing is not one of them. Neither are these other common myths.
Tip #1: A Man Won't Cure The Loneliness
Even if you are consumed by loneliness, finding a boyfriend or a date won't automatically complete you.
Meet Other Gay Men
Tired of holding up the wall? Make a bold move and go from lusting lurker to dating machine with these tips on how to meet gay men.
Get the Truth about Penis Enlargement
Many men desire a bigger penis, which is why penis enlargement is such a big business. Read these facts before you try and make your penis bigger.
Gay Dating Advice: His Eyes May Say Whether...
Is he attracted to you? Researches say the answer to his attraction is in his eyes.
Matt Bomer
American Psychos Bret Easton Ellis says actor Matt Bomer is too gay to play Christian Grey.
5 Signs That Your Boyfriend Is Cheating
Cheating Boyfriend - Do you suspect your boyfriend's been cheating? These 5 signs are sure ways of knowing if your boyfriend has been unfaithful.
Gay Men and HIV: Why Should You Get Tested?
Why every gay man should get an HIV test.
How to Get the Most Out of Tinder
These four tips will help gay men get the most out of using Tinder.
How To Tell Him You Want More Than Just Sex
You get a fair amount of attention at the gay bar, but how do you tell guys that you want more than sex?
Top 5 Questions From Gay Husbands
These men are gay, but married to women. They asked for help and we've answered with the top 5 questions from gay husbands.
Why Was It Important For Marvel's Iceman To...
Marvel has yet another addition to its queer characters: Iceman. The news spread out around the web after the publication of Uncanny X-Men No. 600, on 4 November 2015, where the Iceman character comes out as gay.
Been Exposed to HIV in the Last 72 Hours?...
They call it the HIV morning after pill, for those situations where you've been exposed to HIV through a known positive partner, by blood or other at-risk exposure. If you have been exposed to HIV in the last 72 hours, you may be able to take an HIV prevention regimen called Post Exposure Prophylaxis or PEP.
The Six Reasons You're Still Single
Wondering why you're still single? The answer could be in the mirror. Here's what you need to know and how you can correct it.
Did You Know Spartans Were Gay?
Did you know Spartans were gay? Spartan military training separated groups of men together for long periods of time and it is believed that they were encouraged to engage in sexual activities with each other so they would fight stronger and harder for their partners.
Being Gay and Lonely
Many gay men are overcome with loneliness when they first come out. Find out how to stop feeling lonely and start living.
Have Better Versatile Sex
Have you ever found yourself in a situation of sexual incompatibility? If you feel more comfortable being a bottom and so does your boyfriend, it is obvious that you have a sexual compatibility issue, but this is an opportunity for you to tune your vers skills.Take some tips on how to have better versatile anal sex.
Gay Men and Body Hair
Grooming your body hair doesn't make you gay, it makes you a man that cares about his appearance and body. Remove body hair to the degree that makes you comfortable with the body hair removal method best suited to your budget and hair type. Here's how.
Is It True That Ex-Boyfriend's Always Come Back?
He lost his first love and now he wonders if his ex-boyfriend will ever come back. I told him that rarely do guys get back together with their ex-boyfriends.
Why You're Attracted To Guys You Can't Have
He says he's only attracted to straight boys and other things he cannot have. Is he chasing the thrill or avoiding the reality?
Gay Water Sports and Golden Shower
Many men derive sexual pleasure from water sports or golden showers. See why water sports and golden showers are popular.
Does Experimenting Make You Gay?
You and your buddy may experiment sexually, but that doesn't mean he's gay. See why gay sex just isn't that simple.
I'm Straight, My Gay Ex Boyfriend Wants to be...
No one likes to be lied to or enter into a relationship based on deceit- especially one that involves a partner that's not exactly who he presented himself to be. You broke up with him because you thought he was straight, but he's actually gay. Should you still be his friend?
Is Sexual Orientation Determined by Nature or...
The debate of nature versus nurture explores whether people are born gay or made gay. Get inside the nature versus. nurture debate! Page 2.
What About Gay Rights in North Korea?
What is gay life like in a secretive country such as North Korea? Read the country's official response to homosexuality and see if the experts agree with their claim of human rights.
Before You Become a Gay Male Dancer
There are ways to become a gay male dancer, yet avoid the underbelly of the industry. Set a few things straight before becoming a gay male dancer.
Alan Ball
Profile of openly-gay True Blood creator Alan Ball. Page 11.
How To Meet a Boyfriend
So, how do you meet a boyfriend? Gay love guru, Mona, gives you two simple techniques.
Meeting Other Gay Men: Why You Should Go Out...
Going out with your friends and having little luck finding a date? Maybe you should be going out alone.
LGBT-Friendly Faiths: Find a Religion That Will...
Find a gay, lesbian, bisexual and trans-friendly church that meets your spiritual needs.
Bars (Gay)
You may know where all of the gay and lesbian bars are in your local area, but finding a gay bar in another city is a daunting task, especially if you're not familiar with the area. So, put your smart phone to work and let it help you find the best gay bars in town.
Top Gay iPhone and iPad Apps
A review of the top gay apps for the iPhone and iPad
Poll: Top or Bottom
Poll: Are you a top or bottom? Gay Life.
My Gay High School Infatuation
What do you do when your gay high school infatuation leads to a dead end? See if the guy this gay teen likes from band is actually gay or just playing him.
Why 'London Spy' Is A Pioneer Television Drama...
Is London Spy a thriller or a drama? It is a very well crafted mix between the two genres, which happens to have gay men as its central characters.
Jonathan Groff
Actor Jonathan Groff attends the 'Glee' event at the 27th Annual PaleyFest. Page 13.
Help Me With My Closeted Boyfriend
This gay man just began a new relationship with a guy that's not completely out of the closet yet. Should he pursue the relationship or wait until his man comes out of the closet?
Eerything You Need To Know About Gay Actor Ben...
He is most recognised as 'Q' in the latest instalments of the 007 saga, but gay actor Ben Whishaw is much mora than a major audience star - and he chooses his roles carefully.
Mature Gay Men
Mature gay men often feel age discrimination within the gay community and fear aging alone. Find resources for and statistics on older gay men.
How To Have An Orgasm Without An Erection
Did you know you can get just as much pleasure from a soft penis as you can from an erect one? Find out how to have an orgasm without an erection!
How To Meet Someone When You're HIV Positive
HIV positive and looking for a relationship? Find other HIV positive poz-friendly people to date.
Tips on How to Get a Guy's Phone Number
Learn how to overcome your insecurities and get the phone number of a guy you are attracted to.
Poll Reveals British Bisexuality
British young people are lost in their bisexuality. That was one of the results of a recent poll that asked British citizens to scale their sexuality between homo and heterosexual. The result for the British youth stands somewhere in between.
Binational Couple
Find out about binational gay couples and the struggles they face being together due to immigration laws.
Richard Chamberlain
Profile of out actor Richard Chamberlain. Page 8.
Is Eric Stonestreet Gay?
Is Eric Stonestreet, Modern Family's Cameron Tucker, gay in real life?
Can You Get HIV From Oral Sex?
Can you get HIV from having oral sex without a condom?
How To Talk To Your Gay Son About Sex
Do you have a hunch that your gay son is looking for sex? Here's how to bring up the conversation to discuss what matters before your son gets intimate.
Gay China
China is the fourth largest country in the world. Read about gay rights and life in China. Page 7.
Paul Monette
American author, poet, and activist Paul Monette wrote about gay relationships. Page 15.
6 Steps To Improve Your Sex Life
After five years in a relationship, for example, sex is something that constantly needs fresh ideas. Your partner may seem totally committed to you in every other way besides sex. How can you improve your sex life then? These easy steps can help you reclaim your sex drive.
Overcoming Sexual Performance Anxiety
When he bottoms with his boyfriend, the sex is great; but as soon as he tries to top he gets performance anxiety and loses his erection.
10 Ways You Can Join the Fight for Gay Rights
Become an activist for gay rights by speaking out against bullying, registering to vote, signing a petition for same-sex marriage, and much more.
Make Your Gay Wedding Vows Your Own
There are a ton of things to consider before getting married, including writing the perfect gay wedding vows.
Bug Party
Read the definition of bug parties in the gay community.
My Lover's Wife Is OK With Our Affair
A gay husband is complicated enough in a mixed marriage; but, what happens when the wife is ok with you as his boyfriend?
Why You Should Consider Bold Moves To Meet...
Why wait for a guy to approach you, take a chance and make a bold move to meet other gay men.
Freddie Mercury
The biography of the late Queen frontman, Freddie Mercury. Page 96.
Gym Tips for Gay Men
Tips for gay men who workout. Gay Life. Page 2.
Get the definition of rimming, one of the many gay related terms in the Gay Life glossary.
Billy Porter
Singer Billy Porter joins 'Angles In America' cast. Page 12.
How To Become A Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual or...
Want to become America's Next Top Gay Activist? Seeking to make a more modest contribution to advancing equal gay rights? Here's how you can become a gay activist.
6 Steps To Accept A Gay Loved One
Has your mother, father, son or daughter recently come out of the closet? Here are 6 steps to help you after a loved one tells you he or she is gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgenderHere are 6 steps to accepting a gay loved one.
Pick Up Lines: Making the Most of the First...
Sometimes its hard to maintain your pick-up artist consciousness. Learn how to make the most of your pick up line in the first minute.
Where Is Gay Adoption Legal?
Keep tabs on gay adoption laws with this state-by-state gay adoption index.
Call Mika Whatever You Want
Singer Mika came out as gay, joining only a half dozen popular singers that have come out of the closet. Page 2.
Sex Poll for Gay and Bisexual Men
Take this fun sex poll for gay and bisexual men. See how your sex habits compare to other gay and bi men.
Ricky Martin
Recording artist Ricky Martin (born December 24, 1971 as José Enrique Martin Morales) is a native of
Gay Men: Get Help And Advice Right Now!
Help right now for men questioning their sexuality, just coming out, or for gay men who are already out.
When You Have a Low Sex Drive
You and him may add up to a relationship; but that doesn't mean everything is equal, especially when you share a bed and not the same sex drive. Guys are often played as sex maniacs, but it's not unusual for things to heat up when a low sex drive is involved.
When Your Boyfriend Doesn't Like Sex
There are as many sex drives as there are people to drop their pants. But what happens when your partner loses his libido and refuses to satisfy your high sex drive?
Get Over Your Fear of Rejection
It may be time for a change when the fears of rejection stop you from meeting other gay men.
Loner, Shy Guy? Here's What You Can Do About It
Reservation for one? In many social settings, the quiet shy guy aka. the loner, is considered the loser of the crowd. But not all introverts stick to themselves because they have no choice or are afraid of a body shot. Some gay men are more comfortable in a party of one or a few.
How To Date Younger Men
Flirting with, then asking a younger guy out on a date is no different than courting someone your own age. Our flirting mojo never dies. All you need to do is modify it a bit to get the attention of a younger man.
Threesome Troubles
Threesomes always sound good in fatasy but inviting another man into your special bond can have dangerous consequences. Gay couples often open their sexual relationships to a third person. This is a decision that should have reflexion and responsibility at its base. That is not always the case, especially when both decide that to include a third person in their sexuality is to 'save' their relationship. Can your relationship survive a third partner?

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