Top 10 Questions About Gay Sex

By Ramon Johnson, About.com Guide

Dear Mona,

I'm a photographer and one of my favorite subjects to shoot is guys in their underwear. However, my kinky side is starting to pull at me creatively. I am finding I want to shoot guys tied up naked.

Am I just continuing on a road that starts out small and simple and ends up with whips and chains? Am I just growing creatively? Am I using my photography as a threshold to have hot guys in my control and calling it art and blaming art? Which is the voice I should listen to?

Dear Private Paparazzi,

Too often we try and compartmentalize our lives. We've been taught that there are only two little voices in our heads- one good and one bad- and our destiny is dependant upon which one we choose. Haven't we figured out that life is more than two-dimensions? We believe more in the complexity of our technological equipment than our own minds.

We all have different aspects of our personalities that vie for attention with compulsive behavior. Our sensual side sneaks out when our prude side isn't looking. Our sweet tooth peaks it's head when our nutritious side turns its back. Our little procrastinator has a field day at the expense of our responsible adult, and so on. But, as with anything, life is about balance... read more

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