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Help My Boyfriend With His Premature Ejaculation

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Mona,

My boyfriend and I have been going out for a couple of months and we're in a healthy relationship. Every thing's going great except for sex. He orgasms a bit too early.

He's a real good sport about it, but I know it's affecting his self-esteem. He's often apologizing for his premature ejaculation and I can't help but feel the slightest bit guilty. Is there anything we can do to work on the timing (preferably keep him in the game a bit longer)?

Thanks,
Working on Timing


Dear Bad Timing,

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