- Ask Questions
Asking the right questions when planning a gay vacation can make or break your travel experience. Not only should you assess how gay-friendly your travel agency is, ask them to familiarize you with the gay climate of your destination, including hotels and rental companies.
Ask your travel agent if the proposed hotel front desk has a history of dealing with gay couples or gay families? See if the cruise line has a "reputation" for being non-gay friendly? The list of questions can be as long or as short as you want depending on what makes you comfortable. If you're not satisfied with your travel agent's answers, then call the companies yourself. The last thing you want to do is end up at a destination or on a cruise line that does not welcome alternative lifestyle travelers. - Get Testimonials
No sales script can replace testimonials from actual gay travelers. Ask your agent to show you customer survey results or testimonials about gay customer experiences. You may also want to ask your gay friends or co-workers about their vacation experiences. - Prepare for Looks
Even if you don't like strange stares and snickers you should be prepared to receive them- especially if you're traveling with your family. No matter how gay-friendly your destinations, there may be adults and children that aren't familiar or comfortable seeing two moms or two dads holding hands. Take it in stride and remember, enjoying your vacation takes priority. - Leave a Trail
Safety should always be a consideration when traveling. Give a copy of your itinerary to a family member or friend. Discuss the details of your trip and leave contact information in case of emergency. Also, stay alert and be aware of who and what's around you. Avoid places that aren't well lit or suspicious situations. Discuss an emergency situation plan with your travel partner should something go wrong. - Make Reservations in Both Names
Unless you and your travel buddy share the same last name, make hotel, airline and rental reservations in both your names. That way there is no confusion when you arrive at the front desk. Making multiple name reservations can also help avoid embarrassing situations should the service personnel be less discreet than you'd like. - Anticipate Medical Needs
If you are living with HIV, AIDS or any other illness, be sure to discuss travel with your doctor. Also, pack more medication than you think you need. That way, should your flight be canceled, you'll have enough. Lastly, keep your meds in two locations- some in your carry on luggage and the rest in your check-in bags. That way, if your luggage is lost you'll still be covered. - Share Your Experiences
Keep a travel journal or jot down memorable notes from your trip and share your experiences with your travel agent or friends. Your notes can be of great help to others considering gay travel.
