From the article: Dating Advice For Younger Gays
A large part of our lives are spent navigating through the dating scene and managing relationships. Sometimes things are good; other times, well, not so great. Some throw in the towel, most stick with it. But if you're going to date, you've got to do this... Share your tips! Share Your Experience
Keep Truth TRU
- Well i know im ONLY 20 years old but i Know this much, DON'T LIE in a RELATIONSHIP it DOES damage to the other persons TRUST give him GROUNDS to Believe DOUTS he HAS. Alwayse Fell Free to talk about things with your Significant other Whether its FUNNY,DUMB,STUPID,SAD ANYTHING, if you CAN'T Then Whats UP With whats not SPOKEN OF? Don't PRETEND to Be and Have things you DON'T they BITE you in the Butt in the End!
- —Guest Chris
be faith ful
- hey im kenny i was being marride ones at the age of 16 and im a black guy but my parents didnt know that so for me as i have an expreince about dating guy ther pls be honst to ur self and to ur patner if ur patner is not hones dont try to do that same thing his doing make sure that u dool urself and for me to end up in divorce he was cheating with his ex while im there and whne i went to school to the university he got engeged so i requested for a divorce
- —Guest kenny
Be true to yourself
- For me I think i've learned that you really just have to be honest with yourself on who you are as a person. Don't feel bad for your flaws, and don't expect the world to always show you the easy path. Take what you've learned from your past and apply it to yourself so that you may better yourself for your partner in the future, and truly love them unconditionally. Love your flaws and your partners flaws because they make you both unique and connected in imperfections, and also understand that patience and time work wonders through problems. Be willing to breath before making big decisions and always put yourself in your guy's shoes before giving up. Always remember who you are should never be compromised, and that you deserve someone who will love you unconditionally just as well. Other than that...just know your partner inside and out, and always try to talk things out like adults. If you truly love someone, you'll know what you deserve, while still being patient for that.
- —Guest Lazyfisher25
curious gays
- So dateing advice is what you seek... Ok well all i really got to say is whaen your in a relationship first things first are these three things HONESTY,TRUST,AND FREE TALK!! just alwayse be honest with him never lie i mean you lie i cant say never but alwyase tell him what you think ,thinking! and trust you and him need to know that yall can trust eachother with eachothers lifes! and secondly free talk let him (eachother) know that whatever whenever can be talked about wether it be nasty, gross, scarry, sad, silly, dum, stupid, whatever that he cant talk to you about it conforabaly with no problems! i mean with thoese three thing i really think your relationship shoul go smooth!!
- —Techwood
As a gay life coach, here's my advice...
- 1. List the feelings you want to experience inside a relationship – love, trust, passion, etc. 2. Throw away the list of requirements you have secretly stored in your brain or iPhone – physical, financial or behavioral. 90% of my clients say, “I would never have picked him because he didn’t fit my criteria, but he’s definitely the one.” 3. Always Be Looking – He may be online, but he’s more likely in yoga class, at the DMV or the post office. Learn to flirt and DO NOT cruise. They serve very different purposes. 4. Create a vision board that represents the relationship you want – NOT the man you want. Imagine yourself in that relationship every day as you look at the board. 5. Let go of the “when” and the “how.” Your job is to be clear on the type of relationship you want and to put yourself in the path of as many quality men as you can. Your smiling face and the universe will do the rest.
- —thegaylifecoach
Talk to your partner
- try to understand his point of view and never give up on the relationship
- —Guest New2this
